Should I Stay or Should I Go?

SocialSlut February 26, 2013 4

Not only is it a catchy song from the 80′s, “should I say or should I go” is a common question we ask ourselves after having a sexual encounter with someone we don’t know that well. I might be “SociallySlutty” but I am also extremely post-sexually awkward.

I’ll admit I’m more of a “hit-it-and-quit-it” kind of girl myself. Make no mistake about it, once a man (or the occasional female) has pleased me at my place, I want them gone within 15 minutes and not a second longer. But when I’m a guest in someone else’s bed, I’m not sure what the protocol is. When should I stay and when should I go?

I’m bringing this up now because of an incident a few weekends ago. I met this guy and we hit it off immediately. He asked for my number and bought me a drink. We giggled well into the night and brushed up each other enough for me to feel what he had going on underneath his jeans. Let’s just say, daddy likey.

When he invited me back to his place, I didn’t hesitate. We held hands as we walked to his apartment, stopping along the way for sexy make outs up against random buildings. We finally arrived and I was ready for the clothes to come off. But he slowed us down and offered me a drink. I’d never experienced such hospitality during a hookup, this guy was definitely dragging it out.

After a few drinks, it was back to business. My dress was off, my heels were in the air, and my legs were shaking. He fucked me silly for almost an hour. After the deed was done, he got up to get us some water. Again with the bedside manners! I wasn’t sure whether to get dressed and bolt before he returned or to stay in bed. By the time I decided I should leave he was back with two glasses of water. So I waited.

Finally, he fell asleep. Knowing he had my number, I hesitated on whether I should leave him there without saying goodbye. I decided to go for it and I snuck out like a grounded teenager. I’m sorry I don’t know the protocol! My intention in writing this blog is to get some feedback.

Please give me your two cents in the comments below. What’s appropriate? What would you have done?

4 Comments »

  1. Naked Rebel February 26, 2013 at 6:43 PM - Reply

    I stay because I usually get to go shopping the next day. But hey what do I know, i’m all about the Benjamins Babyyyy

  2. Slutalie February 26, 2013 at 7:10 PM - Reply

    Wow, and I thought I was a slut. No girl should ever need to sneak out. Next time, just go with a “thanks for the good time,” and a kiss on the cheek. Keeps ‘em coming back for more.

  3. Little Sexy Girl February 26, 2013 at 8:35 PM - Reply

    Hit it and quit it! What’s the point in staying for a glass of water? Unless there’s a chance for fucky times round two…

  4. DPKing March 1, 2013 at 5:24 PM - Reply

    I like to stay so I can have breakfast the next day :)

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