Putting Out On The First Date, Yes or No?

SocialSlut May 8, 2013 0

No one’s going to buy the ice cream truck if you’re giving out popsicles for free!

At least that’s what my mother told me. What my mother forgot to go over was free samples. How is anyone going to know what kind of ice cream you’ve got in your truck if you don’t advertise? Offer a taste test? Hello??????

I know how to be in a relationship, I know how to have casual sex, but I’m a fish out of water when it comes to dating. I’m not sure there are any set rules. I’ve heard it all…

Wait until the 3rd date…no wait until the 5th date to put out.

Put out right away so they know you’re interested.

Don’t put out at all so they know they have to work for it!

At this point, I don’t know what to believe! But everything nowadays is about instant gratification… so what does that mean for dating? I’ve decided to come up with THREE S’s of DATING that will hopefully get everyone on the same page:

1. Screen

Let’s face it, every person you go on a  date with isn’t going to be a winner. So why fuck them? DON’T! Screen your dates before you apply whatever rule you were using before. If they seem nice and worth a second date, keep screening. Eventually something will stand out that will let you know if you want to go on to the next S or see them less.

2. Subtle

If your date has made it past the screening process, then it’s time to be subtle. I know many of us like to put all our cards on the table, but hold back. Being subtly sexy is an art. Show a little more leg this next date, incorporate more reasons to touch them, bite your lip, etc. This way you can see if you and your date are on the same page.

3. Sex

Once you’ve established your date is totally and utterly fuckable, it’s time to get to it! This means you’re both interested in doing the deed and like each other enough to have made it through. Now what are you waiting for, time to drop trou!

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