New Year Sexolutions 2014

SocialSlut January 2, 2014 33

Yesterday was the day that people everywhere were saying things they just don’t mean. “I’m going to eat better” or “This year I’m working out.” I think it’s great people like to set such high expectations for themselves, but I can’t seem to hold myself to these resolutions. That’s why years ago, I decided to make resolutions I knew I could keep. So, if you’re looking for ideas…

1. I will have plenty of sex and I won’t feel like a slut for enjoying it.

This might seem simple enough, but sometimes we seem to judge ourselves for our own human nature. I beg women everywhere to conquer this sexolution and let their inhibitions go! For men and women, whether you’re in a committed relationship or completely single, go for the O. Keep the sparks flying, set time aside to get fresh with your lover. Relationships take work and so does being single. Commit to yourself that you will make the effort. GO FOR THE O!

2. I will surround myself with open minded individuals.

There are so many haters out there, all of our porn stars can attest to this. With all that hate, we are losing sight of something so much more powerful, love! I don’t mean that ooey-gooey love stuff, I mean compassion and understanding for those around us. I don’t want to be around people who focus all their energy on negativity. “Porn is bad. Porn is dirty. How do you work in that industry? How can you support it?” – I’m done with this! People who are so close minded and refuse to see the positive side of anything are better left in 2013.

3. I will feel confident naked.

Working in this industry, I’ve heard it all. People think porn stars have self-esteem issues, daddy issues, etc. You name it, I’ve heard it. It’s true that anyone can have problems with their self-esteem (yes, even beautifully sculpted porn stars), but I’ll tell you what else is true: most of the women I work with on a daily basis feel sexiest in their birthday suit. I’m not perfect, but that kind of empowerment is intoxicating. I encourage all of you to take a long look in the mirror, pin point your imperfections and embrace them. There is nothing sexier than confidence.

4. I will be more vocal about what I like and what I want.

Whether you’ve been with someone for a while or you’re starting something new, communication is one of the most important aspects of a relationship, inside and outside of the bedroom. Too many of us expect the other person to know what they’re doing. If you know what you like, speak up! I used to be afraid this would sound bossy, but it’s been my experience that your partner WANTS to please you. So if you give guidance and it leads to an orgasm, both parties win.

A new year means new beginnings. Take the time to set some goals for yourself this year and make them reasonable. Feel free to steal mine. Sexolutions or a resolutions, you have to start somewhere!

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